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First, to match someone with a potential mate, these questionnaires must be answered honestly and accurately, and they aren't (more on that coming shortly).And the questions these surveys ask are really about dating, not relationships, and there's a big difference between dating someone today and being compatible for the long term.Where are the questions about environment, economic conditions, and outside influences?(Example: Long-standing research shows that when couples encounter stress or unexpected demands on their energy, their satisfaction with their relationship declines, often leading to breakup or divorce.)Why don't these dating sites take critical happenings, variables and milestones into account when evaluating compatibility — money management, financial strain, losing a job, illness, death of a parent, moving, raising kids (not "do you want kids," but rather, asking questions about parenting style and actually raising kids)?But these are questions/considerations that need to be taken into account.If online dating sites claim to help find lasting love — a "match" — questions like these are a crucial part of evaluating long-term companionship.
The Human Element Beyond all the pseudo-science, online and mobile dating short-circuits the natural courtship process of men and women. It's well-documented that both men and women lie when completing their online profiles.
Normally, this would be a great thing, as technology makes things better.
But when it comes to love, all technology does is leave a wake of emotional destruction, disconnection, and false positives.
And while the questions these surveys do ask are usually centered on individual wants, needs, behaviors, and characteristics, they only address a very small part of what makes human beings compatible.
These compatibility tests don’t take into account upbringing, childhood environment and/or teenage influences, nor do they address changing attitudes and needs. There’s no qualification other than sending a witty, snarky remark that will get their attention; the proverbial wet dream for any pick-up artist.